Why you should tell them who you are before meetup?

For us transgender people, the minute we choose to be our true selves, we have changed everything in our life. We have to face the discriminative eyes from nearly the world. We are going to be rejected again and again in seeking for a job. Some of us may lose friendship and even family. Violence is also one of the potential dangers in our life. If you come out in public, you are facing enormous life danger because you have no idea how many transphobic are there in real life. On top of all the impacts, dating life might be one of the aspects that are altered by our identity.

Living in such severe circumstances, most transgender people choose to find their love online, because we do not have to face the violence face to face. Besides, there are many ts dating apps there for transgender people to find love and friends and for transgender admirers to realize their sexual fantasies. Having interest in dating transgender people is considered as a fetish, but to most transgender people, this is no big deal as long as they are properly treated with respect. Despite all the transgender dating apps, there are many transgender people would use other regular dating apps without telling people who they are, which makes it dangerous for them as a matter of fact. Here I would tell you a personal experience to show why you should tell them who you are before meetup.

It happened before I went through the gender reassignment surgery. That is to say, I still have my male genitals. I met a cute guy on a dating app not specifically for transgender people. I didn’t tell him the truth about me, because I thought that would be the second or third date thing to tell.

We went to a bar for some drink. After a few drinks, we hit it off. He and I really had a lot of common topics. We both like to travel. We are both dog person. We share the same life view. We talked about nearly an hour, then I went to the bathroom. The bar had a unisex bathroom which only allows one person in. Right after I finished and opened the door, he pushed the door in. He started to kiss me and I didn’t stop him. He wasn’t too aggressive, so I thought maybe a little kiss wouldn’t hurt. Then he started to touch me. Before I could stop him, he touched my genitals. It completely freaked him out. He was so angry saying that I lied to him. He got increasingly angry, then he started to beat me. I cried out loud, but the music was louder than me. I struggled to open the door, but he pulled me back. I had no strength but to wait for him to stop. Finally, I went to hospital for 2 weeks.

That’s how I learned the lesson. The cost is too much. I do hope can learn from it without any cost. Find the best crossdresser dating sites.